Reasons to love the freedom to not commit

Most couples undergoing stable relationship requires a commitment to continue the claim has not become more serious relationship. The reason, not because of fear of commitment but rather to enjoy the freedom and keep open the opportunity to tease others.

This reason also that often become the single trick. They want complete freedom and still want adventure. Is this true?

There are some questions to test the commitment of the spouses before heading into a long term relationship as quoted from Yourtango.

1. Are you always looking for reasons to be critical of your spouse or relationship that you live now?

2. Do you really need a private space so that it looks selfish?

3. Are you in touch with people who are not too well with you?

4. Do you base a relationship on physical attraction alone?

5. Are you always looking for ways to end the relationship or to escape when the relationship enters a more serious stage?

6. Telling the truth at an ideal partner that your relationship is too complicated or too busy pursuing a career?

7. Set the standard pair that is too high?

8. Are you showing signs of fear of commitment in other aspects in life than love affair?

9. You feel the fear of experiencing a divorce or problems like your parents?

10. Are you experiencing abuse in your childhood?

11. Whether you have never apologized to the couple though guilty?

12. Do you have a broken heart after having a romantic relationship in the past?

If the answers to some of the above questions is yes, then it likely means you are commitment phobic. After realizing that you have a phobia in a more serious relationship, remember that this is not a deliberate reluctance.

Driven action you take from the subconscious fear that choosing a mate who did not fit. Even if the meet and establish love with the right people, you hurt him more often so that the relationship broke up and did not progress to a serious relationship. As a result, you are more often alone and lonely.

To fix this, need to ask yourself and learn more about the underlying reasons for phobias and what you want.

This is useful when you are entering new relationships and maintaining those relationships to a more serious level. Tell your partner and try to cure your phobia, in order to have a decent and healthy relationships.

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Menu favorites can talk about character

At the beginning of a relationship, many feel curious and want to know the character of the couple. Compared to women who are more open, men are usually more closed about their personal.

There are unique ways that you can do to find out the nature lover or a man's dream. When you eat, look at the favorites menu or the dish she ordered. Her favorite dish can be a personal gesture.

Some types of foods and desserts can reveal the personality he's quoted as saying by Cosmopolitan.

Chips and spicy foods
He may be very happy in the adventure. A recent poll of 1,000 people from Lawry find spicy lovers really like traveling.

Bread and cheese burger
He is an independent, thoughtful and inquisitive.

Double cheeseburger with fries
He was a loving, and happy to stay at home. Usually, they are a serious person and very happy to watch or to cook with your spouse

Pizza
He could be a dramatic and love being the center of attention. Additional toppings with a sense of unique or unusual marks him a competitive and can become aggressive.

Fruit pies and sweets
He has a sweet personality and serious. Lovers of sweets like to socialize and be happier with the job, finances, and family he has.

Brownies
He was very happy to eat something sweet without the fear of calories. People with this type usually tend to be good, simple, and faithful. Yum!

Vanilla ice cream
He often did not want to be bound by existing rules and the figure is far from boring. Although the choice of dessert plain, vanilla lovers are those who dare to take risks.

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knew him and exchanging ideas

Each couple, would want a quality relationship. There are many ways to make it happen, one is to know the background and personality lover in detail.

Knowing the personality and background she could ask questions. Certainly not the usual question, but that can make you aware of what he wants relations, future life and certainly a match to each other.


Just ask the six questions that dilasir of the following Shine on the him on the sidelines of the conversation. You can get to know and exchange ideas, relationships can be better quality.

1. What ideals are you?
You must know what he aspired unrelated relationship, because that's what he will pursue. Chances are, he will involve you or just do not want to be involved in the pursuit of his ideals. Apart from that, you know what he aspire and be good listeners and supporters.

2. How does your childhood life?
Knowing the childhood of a man, like a key to understand his personality. That's because childhood explain the experiences that shape personality. It is very important to know a woman from the large to the smallest

3. What makes you feel uncomfortable?
This question could arise when you and he are in conflict. This should be discussed in detail. You have to know what makes him angry, upset or uncomfortable in a situation. Then, find a way out together. That way, you and he never caught the same conflict over and over again.

4. What kind of career you want?
It should also be considered by every woman. That's because you can see the possibility he would be away or busy work. At least it could be your consideration.

5. What do you want from this relationship?
Hope someone related to the relationship that is being undertaken not always the same. Very good if mengkarifikasi or ask what he wants the relationship is undertaken with you at this time.

6. This is what you do not like?
Imagine if you always do the things he hated, simply because he was never told. This is the determinant of the success of a relationship.

Many relationships fail because women actually know doing something wrong, but they do not know what their partner can not be tolerated. So it is important to know these limits.

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Signs Must Stay away from ex-girlfriend

- It's easier to make friends become lovers instead of making the ex-lover as a friend. May have a point. Ending a relationship with a good impression, not that also ex-lovers can still be good friends.

Sometimes, keeping a distance with a former lover needs to be done, so that old wounds can not continue to imprint. If you hesitate to stay away from him, here are six things that might be clues for you to stay away from ex-lover, as quoted from page allwomenstalk.com:

1. Still Loving You
Feelings of love may still exist after the relationship ended. However, not always love each other should have. If he turned out to have another pair after breaking up with you, it's good friendship with your ex-lover limit. Do not let your hearts be swayed by pretending to be friends. Better, stay away from him so that you can open your heart to someone else.

2. Still Still Loving You
He has chosen someone else as a lover. However, he still calls and exchanging news via electronic mail to you. Or, he still did not stop getting information out about the story of her past with you. Maybe this can make you feel flattered, however, that no one harmed, you would be better away from it.

3. Never go hand in hand
If you can never be a good friend while still in love, you can not expect much after that. Whether it's a different opinion and morals, or simply a clash of personalities. Do not waste time with him. You do not have to make it as friends.

4. There is treason
No matter who feel cheated or betrayed. A friend who feels betrayed once, will never give confidence for the second time. And if you're in a relationship with her boyfriend after a relationship ends, your friendship will not go smoothly.

5. It only took your money
When I was a lover, he always drain all your savings. And when your relationship ends with him, he still makes his money as your pond. If it continues like this, get rid of it is the best way for your future.

6. No trust
Are you right or wrong, if there is no mutual trust, your relationship could be further eroded. In fact, when you and he was no longer establish love. You need a trusted friend. If the He's not someone who can be trusted when it became a lover, so he will not be able to maintain the trust you give him, nor vice versa.

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What Men Are from Women's Views

Normally a big first impression comes from the visual or eye. But there is a big enough difference that affects men and women when he first saw the opposite sex. Are are they?

A recent study revealed differences in women and men in evaluating a first impression. When I first saw the first ditemuia, men tend to judge a whole, rather than one part. While women have a more detailed assessment.

Do not be surprised if he would argue that a woman he met 'very sexy'. But in view of womanhood, the woman has sexy lips and eyebrows charming face.

A team of experts from Vanderbilt University and Chinese University of Hong Kong conducted a series of experiments and found there are some differences in ratings between men and women.

During the research, the scientists created certain fictitious faces shown the volunteers. Apparently, male participants who saw the object is considered as a whole. While women are more likely to analyze the details separately. Other results also indicate that this trend occurred in other fields.

As quoted Genius Beauty, studies show in addition to gender, perception is very influenced by the level of knowledge about the objects analyzed.

Men and women who had been told previously able to find the face of fiction than those who do not have that information. The same effect was observed in the field of music.

When listening to the music, the respondents who had no knowledge of music is more often considered as a single unified whole.

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gap misunderstandings lead to conflict

Communications technology as the opiate of the millions of people of the world. Beyond the benefits to facilitate communication, the technology has loopholes that lead to conflict antarpasangan misunderstanding.

Here are five activities involving technologies that could potentially trigger conflict romance, as quoted from the Shine:

Tag Photos on Facebook
Potential problems usually arise when a friend do the tagging of photos that show your intimate pose with a friend. Although maybe it's just part of the joke when the first get-together, the picture can make your partner jealous.

Not only photos intimate, potential conflicts can also arise when friends tagging photos you undesirable activity partner. For example, you photograph while holding a booze, smoke, or are in locations that do not like the couple.

One send a message
This usually occurs when someone is interested in you. Or you have a friend of the opposite sex who is very familiar and used to joke with messages of 'naughty'. You should be careful when flirting for fun want to reply to incoming messages. Very likely the message was misdirected into your partner's cell phone, because your fingers reflex when holding the phone fixed to the number of your partner.

Write a romance blog
When arguing with a spouse, confide in a blog might be able to entertain themselves. But be careful. Without realizing it, you will tend to show the ugliness of the couple to the world. Momentarily entertaining, the outpouring of the heart contained in the blog might trigger more severe conflict.

Comments in social networking
Potential jealous most frequently arise through the comments scattered accounts of social networking partners. For example, flirtatious comments from a friend or intimate partner of the opposite sex. The comment sparked jealousy is not impossible to be the beginning of a fierce dispute. Preferably, do not immediately emotion at the sight of such comments. Who knew it was just a fad empty message or your spouse's friends.

Upload photos couples
Maybe you often joke upload photos 'ridiculous' pair. But displaying the photos too personal or embarrassing not infrequently lead to conflict. Your partner can really angry when I feel to be the laughingstock of the people.

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